Divorce FAQs
a. No. A Connecticut resident can obtain a divorce, and their spouse cannot say no.
a. No. You do not have to claim wrong doing to obtain a divorce. Historically, people had to prove adultery, mental cruelty or some other reason for a divorce. The modern practice allows for divorce regardless of fault. This practice is known as no-fault divorce.
a. A divorce will take at least four months. Connecticut law requires that the parties wait at least ninety days from the date a case begins until they can be granted a divorce. Other processing will add at least one month.
a. No. The law includes methods for obtaining service of process in other states or countries, and even if you don't know where your spouse lives.
a. Yes. The court has the power to award exclusive use of the family home to either spouse. Courts will do this on a temporary basis pending the outcome of the case and in a final judgment.
a. You can obtain a restraining order if you believe you are in immediate danger of being harmed. You can also obtain exclusive use of the family residence as described above.
a. No. The court has the power to award any portion of one spouse's property to the other, not necessarily half. People hear of this on television and in the movies because of much of that media comes from California. California has laws known as Community Property which is very different from the laws of Connecticut.
a. Yes. The court has the power to award any part of one spouse's property to the other. Just because you owned this property before you were married would not prevent such an award.
a. If the children of the marriage are living with you, then the court must award child support to you. In addition, the court could award alimony to help you support yourself. Both child support and alimony are available while the case is pending and as part of a final order.
a. People do try to hide their income in divorces. However, I have methods of insuring that we can show the true amount of a spouse's income.
a. Yes. Many agreements breakdown once a divorce begins. Also, a court can reject an agreement by the parties if the court believes its not fair. You need an attorney who can present your case as a fair agreement for the court to approve it. Finally the divorce process can be difficult and frustrating for those who don't know how it works. To expedite your case, and take the pain and frustration out of the process, you should hire an attorney. I have inexpensive programs for people who have an agreement on their divorce.